The first four weeks I lived in the country, our group of travelling students escaped Delhi’s stifling heat to a hill station in the Himalayas, called Mussoorie. At the top of a very steep hill, which we nervously switchbacked in some very creaky taxis, we came to our little village of apartments and divvied up into groups. Little did I know the error in choosing to live with a few reasonably big guys; we only received water in the apartment for a one hour window every day, and outside of that time frame nobody could shower, nobody could wash their hands, and it was absolutely impossible to get the toilet to flush. And the toilet was a strange entity in itself. It was Western style, so no great differences there, but by the presence of one little object it was made so foreign to me, for a toilet in India is not a toilet without its omnipresent plastic jug on the floor beside it. For a long time the jug puzzled and confused me, even though the answer to its reason for being lurked in the back of my mind the whole time. After some time (probably the first time we ran out of toilet paper) I finally came to terms with it—think bidee, but more manual.
We quickly found that trying to shower in that magical space of time when we had water was not an option, as the hour was switched to a different time everyday and we had absolutely no way of knowing when that time would be. So we began to fill up buckets, and I had for the first time one of my most authentically Indian experiences, a bucket shower. The rule of thumb to this, as the maid who lived next to our apartments once told me, is “Use tiny bit water, make everything clean!” In other words, “Forget shaving your legs darling. Oh, and you can forget about the water being hot, too. You see the water heater in the corner? Well, they don’t work in India, not ever. Just make sure you squeejee the floor when you’re done, or else mosquitoes will come and you’ll get malaria, and you didn’t bring any doxycycline with you, did you? Silly white girl.” That was basically what I took from her words, so I went into my cold bathroom, got naked, doused myself with freezing water, and got everything clean (well, every three days, that is).
But a worse problem I encountered in Indian bathrooms was that while I was, ahem, using them, I was frequently bothered by some rather unwelcome visitors. In Mussoorie we had a problem with large spiders that liked to hang out on the wall right beside the loo. These I would steadfastly stare down whenever they were in my sight, and then I would slowly back away and get our resident hippy roommate, Skye, to come in and release it. This last part was not my preferred method of handling the situation, but more a way to placate the very sensitive Skye, and I was convinced that it was the same spider that came back every time, plotting his attack whilst I was at my most defenseless. Later on in Delhi I had a problem with pigeons flying in through my window and nesting in an alcove above my shower, but probably the worst of my beastly problems was while I was still back in Mussoorie, getting endlessly haunted and robbed by monkeys. Generally they were just a nuisance that would sometimes force entry into our kitchen and steal our Cadbury’s (a cardinal offense in my book), but once one of their pack dared to go much further. I was in the bathroom and alone in the apartment at the time, when I heard a rustling noise from the room outside. I assumed it was one of my roommates returning, until I saw, from where I stood in front of the mirror, a long-fingered, hairy brown hand slowly curl around the side of the door, which I’d left slightly ajar. At times of panic like this, words fail you, and only the most obvious expulsions cross your lips. And so I leapt up, screaming the creature’s name to the empty house, and chased it like a wild woman back through the living room and out the front door. It was then, watching it bound across the roof and away from me, that I finally accepted I would have no privacy in India when it came to the bathroom department.
The alternative to a “Western” toilet was something I already knew quite well from our years of living back in Hong Kong—the oriental-style, glorified hole-in-the-ground. That was what I had to work with when we moved into a dusty flat near Delhi University, where I lived for the subsequent five months of my trip. My other roommates got rooms with the only things I considered to be actual, proper toilets (ones that stood above the ground), whilst I got an opening in my tiled floor that running water passed through—still, of course, accompanied by the obligatory plastic jug beside it. Right next to this was a set of rusty pipes that pumped out a meager drip of water, also known as my shower. The head inexplicably busted after about a month, and I took to sitting cross-legged under the bottom tap, resolved to be happy with something that was still a step-up from a bucket shower.
I’d certainly drawn the short straw when it came to the bathrooms in our new abode, before a couple of incidents changed my mind. One day a friend of ours came over and stayed behind to study while we went out for dinner and some exploration. He went in to use the bathroom in the boys’ bedroom, and somehow became trapped inside. With nobody to let him out from the other side, Alexy tried standing on top of the toilet to get to the window above it and ended up detaching the entire thing from the wall with his sheer bodyweight. He must’ve weighed about 90lbs from the sight of him, but the damage done to the boys’ prized porcelain throne was irreparable. It was only the following week when the toilet that belonged to the couple we lived with no longer flushed, again dying abruptly and without good cause.
Only my lowly Indian hole-in-the-ground got all five of us through the next four months, so that by the end of my stay in India, I had gained a whole new respect for it, if you can call it that. Or I at least thought, looking down into the rusted opening in the middle of the grimy bathroom tiles for the last time, these Indian models sure can take a lot of crap.
My apologies to anybody I’ve offended with another meager attempt at tackling a Magpie. I saw the pipes and for a week could only think of this topic! Another set of funny memories from my trip to India that I’m sure I will never forget.